Being stuck home with your partner during the quarantine could be needing some things to spice up your sex life. Or maybe you’re not actually quarantined with your partner and you have to make do.
So what can you do?
This list will sure to keep the romance going and life exciting during this tough time.
1. Set a time for get romantic.
This may seem something silly but if you’re busy and just letting the days run away, setting a time to be romantic is important. As people are working from home the days of work may easily blur together so make sure you either set a specific time or actively communicate about being intimate.
2. Roleplay.
This may seem silly but it may be something to try. You can spice up getting kinky and spanking that boss who is making you work your ass off, you can pretend you’re a doctor and patient in quarantine (I mean there’s already porn that has that so why not) or just get creative. Either way you may get a great laugh from it all, something which is desperately needed.
3. Use toys if you’re not in the mood or get kinky!
Stress means that you may not always be in the mood for sex but your partner may be. Utilizing toys or getting creative, even if you don’t really want to is important. This is a tough time for everyone so keeping your partner happy, within moderation, is important.
4. Masturbation is a-ok!
If your partner isn’t in the mood then masturbation is important and acceptable. You may be alone as well and not have a partner so masturbation is good to get happy chemicals flying around your body.
5. Phone sex is a good choice.
You may not have your partner around and physically with you so you’ll have to get creative. Phone sex is a safe way to get off. You can both play alone, talk about what you’d love to do with your partner and just be creative and be intimate still! It’s old-fashioned but it works!
6. Video-chatting is a great way to be intimate and personal.
This may be a little more risky and may not be your cup of tea but you can always video with your partner. That way it’s a little more intimate as you can see your partner. You don’t necessarily have to do anything but having eye contact with your partner while you talking about nasty things you’d like to do with each other.
7. Sexy pictures spice up life.
Now this is really up to you and you of course have to be safe with this, not adding your face unless you’re just keeping these on a secure device. But, they certainly can be a lot of fun!
8. Porn is completely acceptable.
Sometimes people say that porn is unhealthy and not something you should watch but during extenuating circumstances it’s completely fine! Unless it’s actively interrupting your life, expectations and relationships there’s no problem with it. It maybe needed to help relax and get you into the mood.
9. Romance books full of smut and smexy stuff!
If you’re a reader get a romance book. There’s a ton of great free ones available through iBooks or Amazon that may do the trick.
10. Invest in some partner toys.
There’s some fantastic partner toys that you can use if you’re forced away from your partner for a long time. LoveSense sells some amazing solo and partner toys. It’s a little bit of an investment but it’s sure to leave you smiling and wanting more.
