Masturbation May: Mutual Masturbation

Who says that going solo means that you actually have to be alone? There’s something to be said for masturbating with your partner, whether it be while sitting next to them, on a business trip or via your favorite spicy video call. The benefits are endless, but here are a few reasons why you may want to consider it!

1. You can learn what your partner likes!

Mutual masturbation – the act of masturbating with your partner – is a great way to really watch and see what gets your partner hot and heavy. Maybe you have wanted to know what they do when alone to try and help make your bedroom time even better. Maybe you find it really exciting to watch your partner. Whatever the reason, it is a learning experience because you see what they do as no one knows their body better than themselves. So take notes! Also, it’s really hot to see someone in tune with their body!

2. Keeps long distance steamy!

If you can’t always be with your partner, or whoever it is – whether this be due to work trips, long-distance, or still living in a pandemic – you can still have a fun time! Of course, be safe with this and what apps you choose to use to video chat together (or you can go old fashioned and have a phone call), but it is a great way to bring you two together and do something highly intimate! It is like you are there together, you both get the satisfaction of helping get the other person off, but in a more unique way!

3. Did someone say, porn?

Now, if you are into porn, this can be a great way to have some time. You can watch porn together – learn more about categories your partner likes, maybe see if you’re into try something new, maybe get some ideas of positions or things you want to try! It’s kind of a virtual way to invite more people into your bedroom – you two put on a movie and get busy your own way, get satisfied, and maybe have the best night sleep of your life!

Please note: I am not advocating to watching porn at here at SeXXXYPalace we understand that porn is not for everyone and there are concerns to do with pornography that have been brought to light. Please use discretion with what you choose to watch and make sure your partner is okay with whatever you want to watch.

4. Get confident with them!

Bedroom anxiety or performance anxiety is a real thing! Maybe you have bad past experiences, or maybe you’re self conscious. You can turn the lights off, talk to them and start pushing the boundaries of your relationship safely and within your own hands. You both get a similar happy ending (hopefully!) but you continue to hold the reigns at every step of the way.

5. Toys, toys, toys!!!

Maybe what you and your partner do together does not always do the trick. Maybe you have a favorite vibrator, dildo, or fleshlight that you really want to use! This is the time. You are together – so you don’t have to feel guilty (you shouldn’t be anyway, but I know some people do) – and you can both have a ton of fun with your favorite objects that you just have grown to love. Sometimes you can’t get off the same way with other people, and that is okay. You know what your body likes the best and sometime it takes very specific things to get there – so get out the toys, be in the same space (either in person or virtually) and get to getting off!

Mutual masturbation is an amazing way to learn yourself, learn your partner, grow sexually and just overall have a great time! Give it a try! Have fun and stay sexy! Mwah!