Bondage is a pretty popular kinky thing that people take part in, whether it be with just handcuffs, a tie or a really kinky hogtie.
While it can be tons of fun, it can also be a little dangerous. Read this few points to be aware of before you take the plunge.
Trust Your Partner
Never consent to do bondage with a partner who you do not trust. Because you are completely giving up control and your ability to escape you want to trust them that they will not hurt you, take advantage of you or compromise your safety. This is one of the biggest parts.
Safe Words!
Make sure you have safe words for this – either traffic lights (red, yellow, green) or some other words. If you are sore, feeling uncomfortable or actively worried/in pain you need to be able to express this. If you can’t speak, make sure there are hand-signals identified. Red in a bondage situation may mean immediately releasing you from what’s holding you so making sure your Dominant/Rigger has a knife or scissors available for immediate release.
Make sure you have blood circulation and watch your nerves!!!!
Out of everything, this may be one of the most important safety points. If you feel numbness, tingling or a coldness you should be immediately released or the restraint should be loosened. Do not be afraid to speak up. If you are with a partner you trust then you should be comfortable doing so. Not speaking up can end with permanent nerve damage. If you are the person doing the bondage, make sure you are communicate with your partner to make sure they know about what they should be looking for. Marks on the skin following being released is normal but any signs of serious injuries should immediately be looked at if there are any concerns.
Bondage Safety 101
- Do not ever leave a person bound unattended.
- Never seal both the nose and the mouth (unless it is one of those very short breath play situations and you have communicated)
- Have scissors nearby.
- Do not use locks that require keys.
- If you feel discomfort, immediately voice it and be released.
- If you unsure of this based on your health and your physical fitness, et cetera, speak to your doctor. This is not something to be afraid of, is quite common and a mistake can be very costly.
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